Why You Should Listen to a Sapiosexual Man, Ladies.


Albeit hardworking, sapiosexuals are likely disdain material things and revere philosophical knowledge. So women, when a guy asks you for a date after realizing that you can fit into his donnish realm; hear him out because he probably means it.

JM

1 A woman will bluntly tell you that she dates only rich men but how if a man says that he will exclusively marry a smart lady; WOULD he be regarded a full of himself nerd, one who’s simply not ready to dip hands in pockets and walk down the aisle or would someone just go mute and let this man be? I’m asking this because being choosy for a man is somehow deemed stingy but the other gender’s preferences are always spared the stoning.

A journalist at Daily Beast once said, “A person who likes writers is not a scribosexual, a person who likes lawyers is not a jurosexual…” Yes I know that sapiosexual is a word we inadvertently invented to mean having sexual attraction towards intelligent people but I think it’s here to stay as long as having great conversations with our babes remain sweeter than sex.

Brains are the new boobs! Personally, It would sounds so obsolete if I heard that you still buy flowers for your babe. I better buy her a Jane Austen book then listen to her give reviews after reading the “Pride and Prejudice” writ. And if she discourses it in an intelligent way, then it would be motivating to “spoil” her more in other intelligent approaches. Someone might argue that I sound nerdy but can you leave me alone, now for a while, i.e if you please?

A girl kissing a brain-like ice cream. Credit: Freepik

We really are coming of age. Several years back, you could only write a pen pal via postal mail but with the advent of the internet; one just have to send a direct message to that lass on a platonic dating site. I’m taking about platonic since sapiosexuals are likely to befriend someone for a long time before committing to marriage. Thank heavens sapiosexuality is compartmentalized as a sexual orientation on apps like OkCupid.

Please don’t misunderstand me; hustling hard and getting lots of money is something all of us men should sling at but not every man values cars, big houses and a wife. Albeit hardworking, sapiosexuals are likely disdain material things and revere philosophical knowledge. So women, when a guy asks you for a date after realizing that you can fit into his donnish realm; hear him out because he probably means it.

You never know! That not so rich but educated guy could be the person who’ll give you a happy family and brilliant kids. Lest we forget that the brain is our biggest sex organ; your intimate life could be as majestic as the Kardashians’ if you marry that sapiosexual.


Footnote:

  1. A ‘sapiosexual’ can be defined as: A person who finds intelligence sexually attractive or arousing. ↩︎

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